Feminists are obsessed with power. That guy was annoyed at you because tradition is about putting the relationship and children before yourself not power. You were taking advantage of him, in that relationship you weren't reciprocating and wanted to be a dom. You said it yourself: a queen.
In trad relationships you take steps to avoid tem…
Feminists are obsessed with power. That guy was annoyed at you because tradition is about putting the relationship and children before yourself not power. You were taking advantage of him, in that relationship you weren't reciprocating and wanted to be a dom. You said it yourself: a queen.
In trad relationships you take steps to avoid temptations that could weaken the relationship.
You're making a lot of assumptions about a relationship that you have very few details about. But I agree that feminism and conservastism are both very obsessed with power. Anyone trying to change or sustain a social system needs to be concerned with it.
I think you'd have to actually talk to some traditionalists like Orthodox, Muslims or even Amish families. You can't really understand their mindset from internet memes and feminists. At them moment you seem to want all the benefits of chivalry and tradition while putting in none of your obligations.
As she says, any political movement has to be concerned with power.
I still think some sort of lead/follow dynamic (basically, dom/sub without the whips and leather) would make the most people happy. The 25-50% of the population who wants the old values can have them, the 10% who want an inverted dynamic can have that, and everyone else aiming for egalitarianism can opt out. But, eh, I'm just a guy on the Internet wandering to random Substacks through links. ;)
Feminists are obsessed with power. That guy was annoyed at you because tradition is about putting the relationship and children before yourself not power. You were taking advantage of him, in that relationship you weren't reciprocating and wanted to be a dom. You said it yourself: a queen.
In trad relationships you take steps to avoid temptations that could weaken the relationship.
Putting sub/dom onto it is your own projection.
You're making a lot of assumptions about a relationship that you have very few details about. But I agree that feminism and conservastism are both very obsessed with power. Anyone trying to change or sustain a social system needs to be concerned with it.
I think you'd have to actually talk to some traditionalists like Orthodox, Muslims or even Amish families. You can't really understand their mindset from internet memes and feminists. At them moment you seem to want all the benefits of chivalry and tradition while putting in none of your obligations.
As she says, any political movement has to be concerned with power.
I still think some sort of lead/follow dynamic (basically, dom/sub without the whips and leather) would make the most people happy. The 25-50% of the population who wants the old values can have them, the 10% who want an inverted dynamic can have that, and everyone else aiming for egalitarianism can opt out. But, eh, I'm just a guy on the Internet wandering to random Substacks through links. ;)